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Monday, 25 February 2008
the other day, a friend asked me a super hard question. and i can't answer her with much enthusiasm. the question was: what if one day, someone will come into your life and you realize that he's the one for you. someone who's so perfect, so wonderful, your soulmate. but then you realize you can't be together, because you're already committed with another guy. and the sad part about this is you're not happy with the one you're committed to. what should you do? sacrifice your feelings with your dream guy so you could salvage your relationship with the other guy or go with what you're feeling to fulfill your happiness? i don't know. i don't wanna be in that situation. Labels: love life
Wednesday, 2 January 2008
a friend of mine wants to know how one can tell if she already found the right person. i, myself, dont know the answer because although i'm already married, i'm not sure if i found the right guy for me. whenever reality struck me i will just read this message i got from a friend. a perfect partner in life is someone you can be with and talk about anything without realizing that the day is over...someone who will always listen and feel twice the joy or pain you're going thru...when you start to feel that "connection" never let it go because there is more to companionship than to love only...because in the end, when all else fails and are consumed, you will always hold on to those times when you don't even need to hear the words ï love you".
everyday is a new day. you learn something more about your partner. you're not expected to know them fully right away. each day, you discover something new, may it be a bad trait or a good trait. but you will never really know even if it's staring at you in front of your face. but as the message above says, if you found someone that makes you feel that way, dont let go. but remember, nothing's perfect. no one's perfect.
Labels: love life
Wednesday, 21 November 2007
do you remember my story about a friend of mine who's having second thoughts on whether to push thru with her wedding or not. well, she finally made a decision, a very easy decision. on the day of the prenup (where they went to tagaytay for the pictorial), she got hold of her boyfriend's cellphone, she doesn't usually do it, but that day, she accidentally opened the sent items and to her surprise, there was a message from her boyfriend to a girl named MIA, and the message went like "hi, it's already dark, you take care on your way home, it's raining, i miss you and i love you". so it turned out that the guy is having an affair with another girl. and my friend (actually me as well) couldn't believe that he can do such a thing. all along we thought he's Mr. Nice Guy, perfect and everybody likes him. but we were wrong. i even thought that my friend will be the one to do that, because she enjoys flirting with other guys. good thing was, she's now able to cancel the wedding without the guilt. the road ends for the runaway bride. well, at least, this one has. Labels: love life
Monday, 15 October 2007
when i was younger, i used to listen to joe d'mango over the radio. he's like a love doctor helping with relationships, matters of the heart and the like. im wondering, is he still around? some of the quotes that i've heard are:
How wonderful if we learn how: to love without condition; to speak without bad intention; to give without expecting anything in return; and to care without hesitation. Never say that someone completes you. We have to feel whole even we are by ourselves, for needing someone is not love but dependency... wanting a person to become a part of our life is the best reason for having them and you can only want when you know you have enough. so rather search for that someone who will complete you... wait for the person who will complement your completeness. Its harder to live alone... its harder to choose someone to love.. but the hardest part of loving is to admit that you've fallen for someone without the chance to be yours. Love when established, shall never cease to exist, when there is no intent to abandon.
but still, those quotes are only guides. experience is still the best teacher. and the important thing is learning from mistakes. i believe that there's no one else to blame (for any hardships that we may encounter) but ourselves. we always have a choice. it may not be the right choice but we still have a choice. Labels: love life
Saturday, 21 July 2007
I have this office mate and she's getting married this coming January 2008... the problem is.. she is having second thoughts on whether to push through with it or not.. and what's sad about it is it's for the second time around (just another runaway bride). Her wedding date was supposedly this September 2007 and she postponed it because she's not sure if she's ready to commit. And now, for the past several days, she is thinking of postponing it again (too bad for the guy) and she's having a hard time about it (restless nights). Just imagine, downpayments have been made and since it will be for the second time around, everybody knows that they are getting married, families and friends (imagine the shame to face). And what's sad about it is everybody including her family is in favor of the guy. I haven't met the guy but based on her story, he's a perfect guy but sadly not too perfect for her. And i think if she's going to postpone it again, there will be no third time around. I feel sad for those people who just can't seem to be contented with what's life got to offer. But we must understand that not all people think the same way... and now the question to answer is whom do you choose...the one you love or the one who loves you? think about it... Labels: love life
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