pacute? =)

i have never done any auctions before. my brother-in-law is into online auctions so when i told him about this unique one, he can't believe that there's such a thing. i was surprised as well when i found out but hey, their mechanics made it more fun and exciting and it's different! what more could you ask for? what auction am i talking about? it's the bid4prizes.com one.

how it works, you bid on an item and in order to win, your amount should be the lowest and no other one should have bidded the same amount. if you don't win through that, you still have other chances: Cash prize, Sweepstake and Free gifts.

aint that fun? i think i might bid on that iphone or on an HDTV.

i try hard to eat breakfast. i would grab a toast and hot chocolate or coffee before heading off to work. or if me and my husband still have time, we would eat porridge or whatever the cook prepared that morning. but it's getting busier and busier everyday that i end up having breakfast at work, before doing store visits. i know that breakfast is the most important meal of the day but life's just been crazy lately that even that, i don't have time for.

anyways, i still try my best to have breakfast. but my sister, you'll never really force her to if she doesn't want. she always feel bloated. i wonder how she keeps up with her busy schedule as well. me, im sure im gonna collapse if i don't drink coffee or hot chocolate at least.

so, how many of you have breakfast each day?

i am trying to set my priorities. it used to be work, family, self. work was first since i tell myself that i need to work to help my husband provide the best things to our son. but that shouldn't be. family should always be first. i want our son to grow up well-mannered, intelligent, god-fearing and not a brat that gets whatever he wants just because we're trying to make up for the lost time we should have spent with him.

anyhoo, i found this from: about.com

Juggling School, Work, and Activities Can Be A Challenge

If your nightly refrain is how tired you and the kids are, perhaps your family is struggling with how to balance work, school, and activities. Here are some quick tips for juggling the various schedules and spend some quality time together:

1. Create a family night. The solution is simple and can create memories to last a lifetime. Whether it's movie night, take-out night (think pizza or Chinese, for example), game night, or a family walk night, the key is that a night each week is designated for together time. Relax...and talk with each other! You might be surprised the things you learn from your kids on your special night.

2. Enjoy and interact with your child's friends. Yes, really! Letting kids "hang out" at your place gives you valuable insight into what interests and motivates your own child as well as understanding the "crowd" he or she is associating with.

For younger kids, an hour or two with a friend can teach sharing, responsibility, taking turns, and other traits through actual learning and experiences. And don't forget that many child experts indicate that free time for play and social interaction can be better for a child's development than too many organized or structured activities.

3. Let your child choose his/her interests, and not you. Too many well-meaning parents sign their kids up for activities they're truly not at all interested in or good at, then face conflicts and power struggles as a result. It's another issue all-together if your child constantly begs to sign up for activities and then wants to quit, but kids at even a young age develop certain interests and dreams that they want to pursue. And, they most likely won't be the same dreams you had either! Be careful to choose your battles and accommodate activity requests where practical.

4. Consider the commitment when making decisions. More and more activities are emphasizing additional practices and time requirements in today's competitive world. You as the parent have to decide if a particular activity is appropriate for your child. Options for time-pressed families is to sign kids up for a recreation league vs. a select season; for pee wee-cheerleading instead of a year-round squad, for example

5. Determine your child's commitment as well. If your kid says an activity "might" be fun, avoid committing to a full season or year. Not only could it present a problem for your child if he/she doesn't like it, but will infringe on the other players/members participating in the activity. Many teams rely on a certain number of players or kids to form a group, and a last-minute pull-out could cause an impact on everyone else. If you're not sure, consider signing your child up for a mini-camp or week-long or short session instead. If your kid loves it, then you can always seek something more in the future.

6. Assign family responsibilities. If everyone in the family is participating in some type of activity, then general household chores may be harder to get accomplished due to lack of time. Have a family meeting and explain that in order to do these enrichment activities/sports/music, everyone will have to pitch in to make sure the clothes still get washes, dishes done, and table cleared. If you set expectations up front, any grumbling will be minimized. Even small kids can help set the table, clear dishes, or take out the trash cans to the curb.

7. Watch for signs of being overextended and adjust schedules as needed. If your kid's grades starting plummeting or you get a note that says Emma often falls asleep after mid-morning snack, you may be asking too much of them. Keep in mind a child's age, personality, and true interest in making decisions.

8. Encourage the "all for one and one for all" concept. A family who plays together, stays together is the message and encourage your kids to support each other's activities and endeavors.

9. Above all, keep family first! Keeping your priorities straight will ensure a happier, better-adjusted family.

anyhoo, i've only got one child now and it's proving to be a handful. so as early as now, i should set my priorities straight so if in the future we have anymore kids, i'll be able to divide my time equally.

my job dictates i work from mondays to saturdays. i barely have time for my family since i leave the house very early and i get home around 9pm each day. i really want to spend more time with my family. it's either i work part time, or i stop working altogether. but right now, i have got no choice but to work, in order to provide the best for our son.

anyways, me and hubby are hoping we could have some family time, away from the stress of work. we're looking at weekend breaks at least. we can't really be away from work for too long so our options are either city breaks or any of those short breaks abroad. so we're now down to the 3 options:

hong kong

my sister has been telling me to blog for ages. i wasn't particularly interested since our pc at home has been busted for ages, we have no decent internet connection, we're not allowed to surf online at work, i have no clue what blogging is and i have no time to really do it.

but when she told me the benefits of blogging, i tried to learn. you know naman how little the salary is here in the philippines so any extra will help. i got myself a laptop, still no decent internet connection but bearable and my ate helped me set up everything. so here i am.

and im so happy that i have been approved with one of the many paid blogging sites. one at a time muna and we'll see if i could squeeze it in with my busy sched. but today, i have earned my first $$ and i can't wait till the next one!